So after my epic break down of Friday and just life in general I've come up with this. How many times in young women's did they make us make a list of qualities we wanted in our future husband? More than I can recall. But it really is a good thing to do. I have the DOUGHNUT and CUPCAKE acronyms but I can't hardly ever remember what they stand for. Anyway, as I approach 25, the fact that I'm not even dating anyone seems to be blaring me in the face. of course there are some things on my list that are kind of superficial and could be tossed out, but if we're going for Mr. Right here, it can be on the list. I'm not bound by these things. they are just good things that I'm looking for. And obviously many of them go hand in hand.
Here's the acronyms
this was made by my friend Dana just before I left on the mission.
D done with school
O obedient
U understands Spanish
G good looking
H humble
N not a bad speller
U uses good judgment
T temple worthy and tall
This was also made by Dana, I can't remember it at all.
C
U
P
C
A
K
E
Puts God first
Priesthood holder
Active member of the church
Taller than me
remembers little things
holds my hand
isn't freaked out by my family
handy
plays the guitar
regular temple attendance
regular scripture study
regular prayer
instigator of FHE
Speaks Spanish
Good work ethic
loves kids
can handle the fact that I cry a lot
good sense of humor
builds up others
positive
patient
honest
smart
makes me laugh
will tease me
can cook
likes to read
likes to go camping
Inspires me to be better